About Me

MY STORY

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Leaving school I went straight into working for Ray White as an Auction Sales Person, where I was first introduced into mindset work, NLP, affirmations, Sales Techniques, Business, Marketing etc and that is where my passion for the art of communication was born. I was always passionate about helping others, fascinated about how the world. and the mind works and had a deep interest in why some people perform differently to others. Particularly even within my own family dynamic. I was convinced it was all about mindset and drive; so this felt like the perfect place for me to grow. 

In the background I dreamt about opening a happiness school, although I had no idea what that meant. But, I “knew” I needed money. 

I love Real Estate, I still do. I’ve even developed my own in a foreign country and language – but, that’s another story. But, it holds a lot. The land, the house, the stories it’s seen and helped transform. 

But, something was missing. It was all about the sale. I often joked, saying I felt more like a counsellor than a Real Estate Agent. There was so much going on for my clients, personally and the sale or purchase of a home represented often a lifetime of experience. Either starting, or ending. Right here. Right now. 

And the skills I learnt and developed there helped me to understand and build a deeper connection with clients. Staying grounded whilst talking about massive lifelong commitments, dealing with more money than I had even seen at the young age of 18. It meant a lot of growing up to do. And, quickly. 

So I left Australia to find myself. My true purpose, whatever that meant. I felt like I needed to initiate myself into Adulthood, something I feel many human beings have missed out on. Something I felt, I, as a man, missed out on. 

So, I went on a walkabout. 

Which took me to a muay thai camp in Thailand, where I wanted to test my mental and physical limits. Activally “brainwashing” myself into believing a new reality. It was honestly, all the rage – and it worked. 

I turned my entire life around (for the better) and put an enormous amount of energy into change. Forcing a new program onto an old program. Consciously updating my operating system with a new one. 

I just had no idea the old one was still there. In the background. 

Fast forward to Germany, where I first started studying “Heilerziehungspflege” – it’s a three year apprenticeship based on Psychology, Medicine, Nursing, Pedagogy, as well as practical skills and tools to help people with a mental or physical disability to integrate into society. 

This is where the foundation of my coaching comes from. I realised, the skills, tools and resources I was implementing there – where the exact skills, tools and resources needed in my life and the life of those around me. 

I also noticed a massive disconnect between what I was being taught and what was allowed to be implemented into the day to day life of my clients because of budget and time constraints. 

I knew I had the knowledge, skills, tools and resources to help someone make long term change; yet, we didn’t have the budget to do that. 

I knew I had to change. Again.

BUT I WAS EXHAUSTED.

My old program was catching up with me. Stored in the body. I was pushing and pushing myself to perform – to be perfect. To get my message out there. To help people. But, there was one client whom I was neglecting. 

Myself. And I broke.

I met my now fiancé, Juliane Meyer, clinical psychologist, and she introduced me to Somatic Therapy. 

I made a commitment to myself, to do the work. 3 years, of internal work. The “dark night of the soul” – where I put all of my knowledge to the test. I learnt quickly, that it’s not all about mindset in a body that is refusing to perform. To a mind that was also shutting down.

I went onto deepening my understanding of the subconscious mind and went onto becoming a Certified Master Transformational Life Coach, Master NLP Practitioner and Master Clinical Hypnotherapist with The NLP Coaching Company in Hitchin, UK. I studied the Quantum Healing Hypnosis Technique with Dorlores Cannon to deepen my understanding of the sub and super conscious.

I attended workshops and assisted with James Stevenson from Awaken as Love. Where he offered his unique understanding of personal transformation based in Neuroscience, Tantra, Biodanza, Shamanic & Energy Work, Integral theory and Taoist practices.

Before attending my first ever darkness retreat where I realised what true integration felt like.

Calling home all of me. The good, the bad and the ugly. Taking full ownership of every single little part of me. With love, acceptance and compassion. 

1. To stay stuck in the past. Looping in why I am the way I am, but not having the tools, knowledge or the deep belief that you can elevate your experience and move forward.

OR

2. Completely denying the past and forcing a new future through behavioural change.

Both options bring relief, but in my experience you need both. For long term experiential change. Rooted in a stable new belief system. 

So now it was time to weave all of my knowledge into an experience: “The integrated human experience”

This is where my mentor Alyssa Nobriga comes in. She was the missing link. The “now what?”. And that meant taking aligned action. 

Starting my coaching business.
Sharing my knowledge and sharing my work. 

On a larger scale. 

I joined the Institute for Coaching Mastery for exactly this reason. 
Someone that understood what I had been feeling and working towards for so long.

It’s not just mental.
It’s not just physical. (Somatics / body work)
It’s not just emotions.
It’s not just the unconscious.
It’s not just the super conscious / energy work.
It’s not just behavioural change.

It’s all of it. 

It’s about waking up to your higher potential. Slowly. Gracefully. 

Not tearing you apart with quick NLP numbers, or a one off fast-paced expansive breath-work session; only to be left in the contraction alone that inevitably comes after expansion. (Although these tools play an important role) – that’s not the quick fix everyone had hoped for. That I had hoped for. 

But this is about taking a good hard look at yourself. 

Your past, your present and your future. 

It’s about working with the power of the mind, body, heart and soul connection, rooted in a solid clinical foundation, backed by your own personal experience and accountability. 

It’s about me teaching you the skills, tools and resources to learn how to hold yourself. In any given moment. Through your entire human experience. 

It’s about not denying your past, and also not dwelling in it.

This is a program for people who want long term change.