How to deal with Anger

Anger needs to be repressed and pushed down into that cancerous pit of the stomach. It’s not welcome here! That’s the messaging I got as a young boy. Young Man. But, does Anger have a purpose? A place? I mean, it’s there. So, how do we deal with this perfectly normal emotion in a healthyContinue reading “How to deal with Anger”

Gaslighting vs Invalidation

Gaslighting and invalidation are both forms of psychological manipulation and emotional abuse. There are however some key differences between the two: 1. Intent: The intent behind gaslighting and invalidation is different. Gaslighting is a *deliberate* attempt to make someone question their own perceptions and memories in order to manipulate and control them. Invalidation, on theContinue reading “Gaslighting vs Invalidation”